Children and Youth Religious Education

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While our building is closed, our church is open! Our weekly newsletter, the RelEd Times, will continue to come out on Wednesdays, weekly lessons you can do at home will appear on this page, and we’ll share videos of Children’s Chapel and other activities. Check back regularly.

Weekly Lesson Plans

The worship theme for June is “Pride.”

Billy Goats Gruff and The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes

The Three Billy Goats Gruff

Theme/Reflection: “Threshold.” A crossing over from one space/emotion/experience to another. In today’s story, the goats must be clever to cross a bridge to get to the luscious meadow.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Watch Three Billy Goats Gruff

 

Follow-Up Activities

Put different sized objects into a bag or pillowcase. Reach in and pull out an object. As each object is pulled out have child arrange them in order from smallest to largest or largest to smallest.

Create a bridge on the floor with tape /pillows/ paper… Or go to a real bridge. Try walking across it in different ways. Take turns being the goats and the troll.

Activity and Coloring pages: Color the goats and trolls. Cut out and glue on or under the bridge.

Take pictures of any of these activities and send them to Dolores for a PRIZE.

Coloring Pages. Send picture to Dolores for a PRIZE.

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Theme: “Threshold.” Exploring the threshold of perfection and acceptance.

Watch

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes

Or read this edited version:

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes, by Mark Pett and Gary Rubenstein; adapted by Dolores Miller

For Beatrice Bottomwell, Friday began like any other. She woke at exactly the right time, put on just the perfectly matching socks, and made her sister’s sandwich with just the exact same amount of peanut and jelly on each slice. She remembered to feed her hamster, Humbert, and gave him fresh water. You see, Beatrice never made mistakes.

As she walked to school neighbors called out to her, “Did you make your bed?”. Of course she had! “Did you forget your math homework?” Of course she hadn’t! “How bout tonight’s talent show?” Oh, she was ready! After all, Beatrice and Humbert’s juggling act had won 2 years in a row.

Most people in town didn’t even know Beatrice’s name. They just always called her, “The Girl Who Never Makes Mistakes”.

At school Beatrice was on a cooking team. That day her team was making rhubarb muffins. She got eggs out of the refrigerator, and on her way back she slipped on a piece of fallen rhubarb. Oh my goodness! Beatrice was about to make a mistake! But luckily, she caught the eggs just in time! Phew!

But this made Beatrice nervous. All the rest of the day she couldn’t stop thinking about her “almost mistake”. On her way home from school, she wouldn’t stop to skate with her friends. She was too afraid of falling.

At dinner her sister asked her why she wasn’t eating. Beatrice told her that she was afraid of making a mistake at tonight’s talent show. Her sister told he not to worry. After all, she never makes mistakes.

Beatrice got ready for the show. First, she woke Humbert from his nap. Then she grabbed the saltshaker from the kitchen table. Finally, she filled a balloon with water.

The school auditorium was packed. When Beatrice came on stage, people called out,” That’s her. The girl who never makes mistakes”. “Oh, she’ll be perfect!”.

The music started. She tossed Humbert into the air. Then the saltshaker. Then the water balloon. Everything was perfect. The crowd clapped with delight. But then Beatrice noticed something odd. The specks coming from the saltshaker weren’t white!

“Aahhchoooo!!” (Beatrice)

Humbert was so surprised by her sneeze that he grabbed the water balloon with his claws. Pop!

Humbert, water, pieces of balloon, and pepper, rained down on Beatrice. The music stopped. People gasped. For the first time anyone could remember Beatrice had made a mistake. Beatrice stood still. She was mortified. What would she do? Cry? Run away? Through the water dripping down her face, Beatrice looked up at Humbert. Then she giggled! The giggle grew into a chuckle. Then the chuckle became a laugh. The crowd started laughing with her.

That night, Beatrice slept better than she ever had.

The next morning, she put on mismatched socks. When she made her sister’s sandwich, she put the peanut butter and jelly on the outside of the bread! It was messy and delicious. She skated with her friends and laughed when she fell.

Now, people no longer called her “The Girl Who Never makes Mistakes”. They just call her, Beatrice.

Reflection and Discussion

Why do you think some people try to be perfect all the time?

Do you think people can be perfect? Why or why not?

How do you feel when you make mistakes?

In your opinion, how can mistakes be good?

Which of our Principles do you see reflected in our story?

Our 8 Unitarian Universalist Principles and Purposes

1st: We believe that each and every person is important. 2nd: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly. 3rd: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together. 4th: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life. 5th: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them. 6th: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world. 7th: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things. 8th: We will build a diverse multicultural beloved community with actions to stop racism and oppression within ourselves and communities.

Follow-Up Activities

Story-related activity sheets

Teach yourself to juggle:

Big Orange Splot (highlighted) and The Happy Man’s Shirt (new)

The Big Orange Splot

Theme/Reflection: The All Souls theme for April is “Liberation.” We liberate our spirits when we are true to who we are.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction: In “The Big Orange Splot,” Mr. Plumbean lives on a “neat street” where all the houses look the same. As seagull flies over his house and drops a can of bright orange paint on his roof, but instead of repainting his house to look like all the others on the street, Mr. Plumbean paints it to resemble his dreams. His neighbors sent each other to talk him into repainting his house to look like theirs, but everyone he talks to ends up painting their houses to look like their dreams also. In the end all the neighbors say: “Our street is us and we are it. Our street is where we like to be, and it looks like all our dreams.”

Videos

Two readings of Daniel Pinkwater’s “The Big Orange Splot.”

Read by 8th graders in New Zealand

Read by a teacher

Follow Up

  1. What is your favorite place to be? What colors would you paint your favorite place?
  2. Color pictures of houses. Decorate with stickers if you have them. Cut out and glue pictures on your house.
  3. Make an orange splot from paper, cardboard, or fabric, or use this one. Take turns hiding and finding it.
  4. Coloring pages

The Happy Man’s Shirt

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like, or see Chalice Lighting video linked on this webpage.

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit-growing, justice-seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Options for Rituals

Choose from the rituals in the videos on this web page.

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life
  • Body Prayer
  • Blessing

Story

Watch the Story for All Ages in today’s service or read it in the transcript of the service.

Follow-Up Reflections and Activities

  • Is there something you wish you had more or less of? Why?
  • What things in your life are just fine for you the way they are? Why?
  • Have you ever felt that you were on the “threshold” of an idea or emotion? How do you “cross over”?
  • Make a journal. Use it to write or draw about new ideas, dreams, feelings… (see video below)
  • Do something to make others feel better (mail someone a picture or note with positive thoughts)
  • How do our 8 Unitarian Universalist Principle and Purposes guide is in making the world a better place?
  • Activity Pages –Various Ages (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)
  • Work outside: garden, weed, observe nature clearly. How does it make you feel?

Our 8 Unitarian Universalist Principles and Purposes

1st: We believe that each and every person is important. 2nd: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly. 3rd: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together. 4th: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life. 5th: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them. 6th: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world. 7th: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things. 8th: We will build a diverse multicultural beloved community with actions to stop racism and oppression within ourselves and communities

Swimmy

Theme/Reflection: “Pride.” When Swimmy’s community is destroyed by a larger fish, he is proud to be able to rebuild his community. As Unitarian Universalists we believe in working together to build a better world and fight oppression.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Hear and see the story “Swimmy.”

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Print out the page of fish on cardstock or stiff paper, or cut out the fish shapes and glue on to cardboard (cereal or other type boxes). Using the fish shapes, act out the part about the big fish and the little fish.
  2. With family, or those in your circle, try to walk together to make the form of a fish.
  3. Make fish faces in the mirror.
  4. If you have sponges cut them into fish shapes and dip them in paint to make fish prints.
  5. Take pictures of any of these activities and send them to Dolores for a PRIZE.
  6. Coloring Pages. Send picture to Dolores for a PRIZE.
Pride

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction

The book, “Teammates.” tells the story of Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey, and Pee Wee Reese, and how they broke the color barrier in baseball in 1947. Where do you see the theme of “Pride” reflected in the story?

The introduction to the book reads: In one of the last speeches Jackie Robinson made before he died in 1972, he expressed the strong wish that an African American could be a manager or even a third base coach. Baseball, after all, was the national pastime, and Jackie made the point that discrimination was hurting the reputation of the game he loved.

Several years later, in 1975, Frank Robinson became the first black manager of a baseball team.

Baseball, finally, had gave Jackie his due. His number has been retired—no future players may ever wear it. And each year before 15th, the day he began played the Brooklyn Dodgers, celebrated in every Major League Baseball public hearing it fitting tribute to stitch a talented, heroic man.

Hear Dolores read the book:

Follow-Up Activities

1) Reflecting on the Story and Our Principles (suggested ages)

  • Why do you think Jackie didn’t fight back and argue with people? (both)
  • How might baseball history have been different if he had? (older)
  • Why do you think Pee Wee Reese choose that moment to do what he did? Do you think he planned to do it ahead of time? (older)
  • Who do you think had to overcome greater doubt: Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey, or Pee Wee Reese? Why? (older)
  • Which of our 8 Principles do each of their actions reflect? (both)

2) Self-Reflection

  • Did you ever witness a situation where a person or animal was being treated badly? Were you uncertain what to do about it? (both)
  • How you ever felt you were being treated badly? Did you wish someone would help out? (both)
  • Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey and Pee Wee Reese had very different personalities and ways with people. Which one do you think is most like you? (older)

3) Watch old clips of Jackie Robinson playing baseball.

4) Play ball of any kind, alone or with someone. (Send me a picture and receive a PRIZE.)

5) Activity Pages –Various Ages (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Our 8 Unitarian Universalist Principles

1st: We believe that each and every person is important.

2nd: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly.

3rd: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together.

4th: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life.

5th: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them.

6th: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world.

7th: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things.

8th: We will build a diverse multicultural beloved community with actions to stop racism and oppression within ourselves and communities

Curious About Prayer and Blessing

Begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: The All Souls theme for March is, “Curiosity.” Many of us are curious about prayer and blessing. Let’s explore some questions and thoughts.

Discussion:

  1. What is prayer? Google describes prayer as an invocation or act that seeks to activate a rapport with an object of worship through deliberate communication. It often refers to an act of request directed towards a deity or a deified ancestor. Another way to describe prayer could be a sharing of deep emotions and desires with our innermost selves and a universal power. Prayer can also be paying attention to others, focusing love and attention on others who are experiencing difficulty or pain, like in our “Calling of Names” ritual.
  2. Is praying the same as wishing really hard? For some people it is. We all have our own ideas about prayer. Others would not pray for special favors but would hope to feel in touch with the power of goodness in the universe, to gain insight into problems they face or decisions that need to be made.
  3. Do Unitarian Universalists pray? UUs use are not required to learn or recite particular prayers. Many UUs take quiet moments of prayer or meditation to sense their oneness with the whole of the universe or feel their connection with the source and spirit of life.
  4. How do people experience prayer? There are many ways and forms to focus on prayer. It could be through meditating, giving, walking, caring, art (like coloring or drawing), rituals such as our Child Dedications, music (see drumming video on this webpage), or journaling. (Today’s follow up activity will be creating a Journaling “Prayer” Book.)
  5. What is a blessing? A blessing is a beneficial thing for which one is grateful. Recognizing and feeling gratitude. Such as a blessing before a meal. We are not blessing the food: the food is a blessing that we’re grateful for. Or in our Child Dedications. We are not blessing the child; we are blessed to be welcoming that child into our Beloved Community. In the blessing we do at the end of Chapel, we are showing gratitude for being together.

Extinguish Chalice when the time is right for you. It could be before reading the conversation, or before doing the follow up activities. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on this webpage.

Follow Up Activities:

  • Meditative Coloring Pages
  • Making a journal (VIDEO). In Rob’s March 22 sermon, he encouraged us to make a journal to write (or draw) about our losses and blessings. Keeping such a journal and looking back on it can be a form of prayer. If you have thoughts or prayers that are special to you or speak to you, write or draw them in there too. See Readings, Reflections, Prayers, and Blessings listed on this webpage, including the meal and bedtime prayers.

Henry hikes to Fitchburg and Jackie makes the big league.

Henry Hikes to Fitchburg

Theme/Reflection: “Pride.” We are proud to share the planet with all of life and nature. This story, a picture book version about the life of Henry David Thoreau, is about two bear friends going on a trip to Fitchburg. One chooses to work to get the money to take the train, and the other chooses to hike and have many sensory experiences along the way. The story reminds us of our 4th principle, “We affirm and promote a free and responsible search for truth and meaning.”

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Watch “Henry Hikes to Fitchburg”

 

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Color and cut out pictures of the things Henry and his friend did. Glue them on the labeled sheet.
  2. Pretend to be the animals that Henry meets in his travels (cow, chicken, bird). Pretend to jump in a pond and other activities mentioned in the story.
  3. Make a train inside or outside, placing chairs in rows. Play with family (and socially distant friends), or use stuffed animals, action figures, dolls… Print out tickets here.
  4. Coloring Pages. Send picture to Dolores for a PRIZE.
  5. Watch last week’s Story for All Ages.

Pride

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction

The book, “Teammates.” tells the story of Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey, and Pee Wee Reese, and how they broke the color barrier in baseball in 1947. Where do you see the theme of “Pride” reflected in the story?

The introduction to the book reads: In one of the last speeches Jackie Robinson made before he died in 1972, he expressed the strong wish that an African American could be a manager or even a third base coach. Baseball, after all, was the national pastime, and Jackie made the point that discrimination was hurting the reputation of the game he loved.

Several years later, in 1975, Frank Robinson became the first black manager of a baseball team.

Baseball, finally, had gave Jackie his due. His number has been retired—no future players may ever wear it. And each year before 15th, the day he began played the Brooklyn Dodgers, celebrated in every Major League Baseball public hearing it fitting tribute to stitch a talented, heroic man.

Hear Dolores read the book:

Follow-Up Activities

1) Reflecting on the Story and Our Principles (suggested ages)

  • Why do you think Jackie didn’t fight back and argue with people? (both)
  • How might baseball history have been different if he had? (older)
  • Why do you think Pee Wee Reese choose that moment to do what he did? Do you think he planned to do it ahead of time? (older)
  • Who do you think had to overcome greater doubt: Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey, or Pee Wee Reese? Why? (older)
  • Which of our 8 Principles do each of their actions reflect? (both)

2) Self-Reflection

  • Did you ever witness a situation where a person or animal was being treated badly? Were you uncertain what to do about it? (both)
  • How you ever felt you were being treated badly? Did you wish someone would help out? (both)
  • Jackie Robinson, Branch Rickey and Pee Wee Reese had very different personalities and ways with people. Which one do you think is most like you? (older)

3) Watch old clips of Jackie Robinson playing baseball.

4) Play ball of any kind, alone or with someone. (Send me a picture and receive a PRIZE.)

5) Activity Pages –Various Ages (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Our 8 Unitarian Universalist Principles

1st: We believe that each and every person is important.

2nd: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly.

3rd: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together.

4th: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life.

5th: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them.

6th: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world.

7th: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things.

8th: We will build a diverse multicultural beloved community with actions to stop racism and oppression within ourselves and communities

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Teddy bears and pride.

Teddy Bear’s Picnic

Theme/Reflection: “Pride.” We are proud to have each other and our church. Those are things to celebrate. A picnic with family and friends is a celebration.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Watch “The Teddy Bear’s Picnic”

Olivia reads “The Teddy Bears’ Picnic”

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Play “Going On A Bear Hunt.”
  2. Act out “Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear.”
  3. Dress a Paper Doll Teddy Bear. Send picture to Dolores for a PRIZE.
  4. Watch today’s Story for All Ages in the service or view here.
  5. Coloring Pages. Send picture to Dolores for a PRIZE.
  6. Have an outdoor or indoor picnic.
  7. Last day for the Spring Scavenger Hunt. Send to Dolores for a PRIZE!
Pride

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Watch

Watch the Story for All Ages, “I Wish You More,” told in today’s service. Or view it here.

Follow-Up Activities

Discussion about “Pride”: What’s the difference between being proud and being arrogant or boastful? How do you express that?

Write notes, create drawings to send to Rev Rob Hardies to say goodbye and wish him well. You could also thank him for being our spiritual guide for so many years. Mail to: 1500 Harvard St NW, Washington, DC 20009.

Activity Pages – Various ages (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Spring Scavenger Hunt (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Birds.

My World Has Birds

Theme/Reflection: “Gratitude.” We are grateful for nature which can provide wonder. We appreciate the variety of creatures which share our world.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Watch Dolores read “Bird Calls”

Olivia reads from the nursery

Follow-Up Activities

Swinging Birds Fingerplay:

  • Here are two tall telephone poles (pointer fingers up)
  • Between them a wire is strong (middle fingers bend into touch fingertips)
  • Two little birds hopped on (thumbs touch middle fingers)
  • And swung and swung and swung (hands swing back and forth)

Bird’s Nest Craft (The instructions mention a Styrofoam bowl. Paper is preferable.)

Watch Dolores’s video from today’s K-5th lesson to learn how to make bird nesting material pouches

Make “Bird’s Nest Cookies

Coloring Pages

Do the Spring Scavenger Hunt

Send Dolores a picture of your colorings, crafts, cookies, fingerplay, or Scavenger Hunt. Get a PRIZE!

Grateful for Nature

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Watch

Dolores leads the lesson.

Jen Hayman plays “For the Beauty of the Earth” (music and lyrics here)

Follow-Up Activities

Making Bird Nesting Materials Pouches (watch video for instructions)

Make Bird’s Nests Cookies

Make Fold-A-Birds. Light cardstock suggested (Take a picture, get a PRIZE)

Draw Birds -(Instructions & drawing shapes provided) (Take a picture, get a PRIZE)

Activity Pages –Various Ages (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Spring Scavenger Hunt (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Relatives and memorializing UUs.

The Relatives Came

Theme/Reflection: “Gratitude.” We are grateful for our extended families. To think about how good it feels to visit with family, which we’ll do again someday.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Watch this reading of “The Relatives Came.” When you hear/see things you like to do with loved ones, stop and talk about them.

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Make a collage of the things the relatives did together with these pictures.
  2. Make cards to send to relatives letting them know you’re thinking of them. Color, cut, and glue the pictures of the things the relatives did together.
  3. Act out the activities the relatives did together.
  4. Talk about a time when you had to sleep on the floor.
  5. Coloring Pages.
Memorializing Unitarian Universalists

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Watch

Dolores leads the lesson.

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Create a UU Memorial Garden or Path as suggested in Dolores’ video. The photos and biographies of the UUs are here:
    Women: pictures and bios
    Men: pictures and bios
    (Take a picture and send to Dolores for a PRIZE.)
  2. UUs Word Search. (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)
  3. Activity Pages. (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)
  4. Spring Scavenger Hunt. (Send completed to Dolores for a PRIZE.)

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Who’s in a Family? Zen Pig.

Families

Theme/Reflection: “Gratitude.” We are grateful for our families. A child’s first experience in human relationships and spirituality are within a family. Feelings of trust and security are developed in the home. This lesson nurtures a sense of pride in all kinds of families and homes.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos

Dolores reads “Who’s in a Family”

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Make a collage of your family using the page provided or a plain piece of paper. Cut out the people and animals or draw your own.
  2. Pantomine the things that your family does together. (cooking, eating, reading…) What else does your family do together?
  3. Coloring pages.
Gratitude with Zen Pig, Sa’di, and Helen Keller

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: We’ll explore “gratitude” by comparing messages in the contemporary children’s book, “Zen Pig: the Art of Gratitude,” and in the poem “The Gulistan,” written by Sa’di in the 13th century. While “Zen Pig” appears to be a book for very young children, older children understand its content on a deeper level. We’ll also look at where we see our Principles and Purposes in these writings.

Read and Watch

Dolores reads “Zen Pig: the Art of Gratitude”

Zen Pig: The Art of Gratitude

Eons ago on a grassy green Knoll, lived a pleasant little pig who always seemed quite whole.

He enjoyed his life much more than most because he took the time to look at things close.

Wherever he was, he was always there, ready and willing to be fully aware.

“That Zen pig is special.” Is what others would say. Yet, Zen pig denied, and said, “I’ll show you the way.

Care for each other, as much as yourself. And never lose sight, that love is true wealth.

And when you speak choose your words with care. Only kindness and compassion will ease others despair.

We all make mistakes, so forgive yourself fast. Don’t expect to be perfect or happiness won’t last.

Never waste time thinking of the future or the past. Just enjoy this moment and all that it has.

Be thankful for all that you have, there is no need for more. You have everything that’s needed to walk through happy’s door.

When someone’s in need don’t think, just act. Give all that you can and don’t hold back.

Listen to my words and follow the path. Then you two will sit atop the Knoll with the green, green grass”

Namaste. (“The light in me loves the light in you.”)

The Gulistan, by Sa’di

I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.

Discussion

The quote by Sa’di is often mistakenly credited to Helen Keller. She did say that it was this quote that she lived her life by.

How do the texts relate to our UU Principles?

  • 1st Principle: We believe that each and every person is important.
  • 2nd Principle: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly.
  • 3rd Principle: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together.
  • 4th Principle: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life.
  • 5th Principle: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them.
  • 6th Principle: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world.
  • 7th Principle: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things.
  • 8th Principle: We believe in building a diverse, multicultural ‘Beloved Community’ that eliminates all forms of oppression.

Extinguish the Chalice

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage.

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Make a “Gratitude Wheel”
  2. Send someone a note thanking them for being who they are.
  3. Have a “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt”. E-mail to Dolores when completed for a prize!
  4. Activity and Coloring Pages. E-mail to Dolores for a prize!

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Lei Day, Mother’s Peace Day, and Julia Ward Howe

Lei Day

Theme/Reflection: We can show “Gratitude” by giving to others. We celebrate the beauty of nature.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction

The Polynesian settlers of the Hawaiian Islands created the lei as an appeasement to the gods. Later, flowers became the symbol of friendliness and the “Aloha” spirit. Lei Day began in 1928 at the suggestion of the late poet, Dan Blanding. Today Lei Day in Hawaii is celebrated with lei contests, colorful pageants, and plays dealing with the state’s history and culture. Lei Day is observed in Hawaii on May 1st and leis are exchanged as signs of friendship. This celebration is similar to the Unitarian Universalist observance of Flower Communion as celebrated annually in many congregations. Flower communion was started in Czechoslovakia by Unitarian minister Norebet Capek in 1923. Usually flowers are brought to the service by congregants. The flowers are collected in baskets and at the end of the service each person is invited to take home a different flower. Just as no two flowers are alike, no two people are alike. Yet each has a contribution to make. By exchanging the flowers, we signify that we are willing, in the spirit of appreciation and patience, to march together in search of truth, disregarding all that usually divides.

Videos

Dolores reads “Hawaii Is a Rainbow”

Follow-Up Activities

1) Do a Hula Dance: Take 2 steps to the left, then 2 to the right.

Make up motions to the words: rainbow, sun, rain, sky, birds, trees, flowers, seas. Then read the following poem and lead the motions you have created:

Rainbows are beautiful, rainbows are beautiful, yellow for sun, blue for rain, let’s sing a rainbow, let’s dance a rainbow, up so high in the sky.

Rainbows are beautiful, rainbows are beautiful, orange for birds, green for trees, let’s sing a rainbow, let’s dance a rainbow, up so high in the Sky.

Rainbows are beautiful, rainbows are beautiful, red for flowers, violet for seas, let’s sing a rainbow, let’s dance a rainbow, up so high in the sky.

Sing/recite and hula through a couple of times. You could use the tune to “Frere Jacques.”

2) In Hawaii on Lei Day, people give each other flower necklaces, or paper made to look like flowers.

Make leis: draw circles on paper using a glass or other round item. Decorate circles, then cut out. (Older preschoolers can usually cut, so squares would be easier than circles if they’re doing it themselves.) Poke holes in the center of the circles/squares. String circles on yarn/string/shoelace… Put a piece of tape on the end to make it easier to string. Tie and wear or give to someone else. You could make several and give them out.

3) Coloring pages

 

Unitarian Julia Ward Howe and Mother’s Peace Day

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: The first Mother’s Day was started by a Unitarian woman as a day for women all over the world to work for peace.

Read and Watch

The story of the origins of Mother’s Day

Peacemaking for Kids of All Ages

Mother’s Day Proclamation, written by Julia Ward Howe in 1870

Watch this “MUST SEE” video about Julia Ward Howe writing “The Battle Hymn of the Republic, is narrated by her great-great-great grandson.

Discussion

How can you put the points in Peacemaking for Kids of All Ages into action?

For older children and adults: Choose some passages from Julia Ward Howe’s Mother’s Day Proclamation to talk about. Do you have a favorite part? Why?

Extinguish the Chalice

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities

1. Write postcards or notes encouraging people to vote. This very important project in working for equality is a partnership between the RE program and All Souls’ James Reeb Voting Rights Project. Watch this video by the Maxwells for instructions. The postcards should say one of three things:

  • Vote Your Power
  • Vote for Our Lives
  • Power to the People

Then put your postcards in an envelope and mail to Ann Maxwell at the address given in the video. Do not put her address directly on the postcard. If you have questions, contact Dolores (dmiller@allsouls.ws).

2. Watch a video of “Down by the Riverside,” a spiritual often sung at rallies for peace.

3. Have a “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt.” E-mail Dolores when completed for a prize!

4. Activity and Coloring Pages. E-mail Dolores when completed for a prize!

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

May Day!

May Day

Theme/Reflection: The All Souls theme for April is “Gratitude.” As Unitarian Universalists we strive to make the world a more kind and just place. In celebrating May Day we show our appreciation for others.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction:

May Day, celebrated on May 1, is a spring festival that marks the revival of life in early spring. It probably originated with the Ancient Romans who honored the goddess Flora by gathering spring flowers. It became a favorite holiday in medieval English villages, where they gathered flowers to decorate homes and churches and dance around a maypole.

Today children in the United States and Canada as well as some European countries make baskets, fill them with spring flowers and candy, and hang the baskets on doorknobs and run away or hide until the basket is discovered. This simple, old fashioned holiday brings much joy to those who receive the baskets

Videos

Play with Me

It’s Spring

Follow-Up Activities

May Basket Game

When you give a May basket, (Point to a friend.)
That’s a time for fun. (Smile.)
Set it on the stoop, (Pretend to set basket down.)
Knock on the door, (Pretend to knock.)
And run, run, run! (Run in place or make fingers run.)

Color & Cut: Pictures of flowers. Add those flowers to the May Basket.

Make May Baskets: Fold and glue the corners according to directions. Staple or tape ribbon to opposite sides for a handle. Decorate. Add the colored & cut out flowers.

Deliver May Baskets: Leave a May Basket on the porch/stoop of your neighbors. (Using social distancing)

Make a Maypole: a) Tie long ribbons/streamers/ rope/strips from rages… to the branches of trees. b) Find a way to secure a broom or pole standing up.

Maypole Dance: In its most simple form, the dancers simply stand in a circle around the maypole and, in time with the music, take 4 steps towards the maypole, 4 steps back and the circle for a count of 8. As they approach the maypole they can raise their arms, and then lower them as they back away.

Coloring Pages

Exploring “Gratitude” with “Did I Ever Tell You How Lucky You Are?” by Dr. Seuss

This is a Story for All Ages Sunday. You can begin by watching the story in the recorded Sunday service, or read it in the transcript.

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: It’s interesting that our theme for May is “Gratitude” at a time when life is so frustrating and discouraging. But it’s also serendipitous in helping us reflect on the many things we have to be grateful for, even if we must look hard to find those things.

Discussion

What are things that you are lucky to have?

How does the story “Did I Ever Tell You How Lucky You Are?” make you feel?

How do you show gratitude for being lucky?

What reminds you that you are lucky?

If we were in church, today would be a “Choose Your Own Adventure” Day. What does “Gratitude” have to do with “Choose Your Own Adventure”? (The children are really good about making connections between the monthly themes and Adventure Day. We ask this question every month.)

Extinguish the Chalice

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities

Make a “Gratitude Wheel” Watch Lydia’s “how-to” video. (LINK) You will need: File folder (or something like it) or construction paper, marker/crayon/pencil, metal brad or a twist tie, and a button

Have a “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt.” For a prize, e-mail to Dolores when completed

Activity Pages

Create 3 “Adventures”

  • Building/Dramatic Play: Use any building materials and dress up clothes.
  • Games: Bring out board games you haven’t seen for a while (if there are any left!) Or make up your own.
  • Gym: Turn an area of your house into a Gym or go outside. Make up a golf course using cans, pots or buckets. Make up a ball game. Make an obstacle course. Ride a scooter, bike, or skateboard through it.

Take pictures or videos of skits, games, creations. We’d love to see you on our webpage!

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Big Orange Splot!

The Big Orange Splot

Theme/Reflection: The All Souls theme for April is “Liberation.” We liberate our spirits when we are true to who we are.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction: In “The Big Orange Splot,” Mr. Plumbean lives on a “neat street” where all the houses look the same. As seagull flies over his house and drops a can of bright orange paint on his roof, but instead of repainting his house to look like all the others on the street, Mr. Plumbean paints it to resemble his dreams. His neighbors sent each other to talk him into repainting his house to look like theirs, but everyone he talks to ends up painting their houses to look like their dreams also. In the end all the neighbors say: “Our street is us and we are it. Our street is where we like to be, and it looks like all our dreams.”

Videos

Two readings of Daniel Pinkwater’s “The Big Orange Splot.”

Read by 8th graders in New Zealand

Read by a teacher

Follow Up

  1. What is your favorite place to be? What colors would you paint your favorite place?
  2. Color pictures of houses. Decorate with stickers if you have them. Cut out and glue pictures on your house.
  3. Make an orange splot from paper, cardboard, or fabric, or use this one. Take turns hiding and finding it.
  4. Coloring pages
Liberation Through Self-Expression

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction:

Mr. Plumbean lives on a street where all the houses look the same, and everyone likes it that way. Everything changes when a seagull splashes orange paint on Mr. Plumbean’s house. He decides to paint his house to reflect his colorful dreams. Living out our 1st Unitarian Universalist Principle: “We covenant to affirm and promote the worth and dignity of every person.”

Read/Hear: “The Big Orange Splot” by Daniel Manus Pinkwater

Mr. Plumbean lived on a street where all the houses were the same. He liked it that way. So did everyone else on Mr. Plumbean’s street.

“This is a neat street!” (actors in unison with ASL)

Then one day, a raptor flew over Mr. Plumbean’s house, carrying a can of bright orange paint. No one knows why. And he dropped the paint right over Mr. Plumbean’s house! It made a big orange splot on his house.

“Oooh! Too bad” (actors & congregation) “Plumbean’s going to have to paint his house”.

He supposed he would. He looked at the big orange splot for a long time, then he went about his business.

But the neighbors got tired of seeing the big orange splot. They told him he needed to paint his house.

So Plumbean went out and bought some paint. He bought blue paint, and red paint, and yellow paint, green paint and purple paint. When he was finished his house was like a rainbow! It was like a jungle! It was like an explosion!

People said, “Plumbean has popped his cork! Blown his stack! Flipped his wig! Dropped his stopper!” (gesture) They went away muttering. (actors & congregation mutter)

That night Plumbean planted palm trees and bought an alligator. In the morning neighbors found Plumbean relaxing in his yard, sipping lemonade, with an alligator by his side.

People shouted, “Plumbean has gone too far! This used to be a neat street (ASL) Plumbean, what have you done to your house?”

Plumbean answered, “My house is me and I am it. My house is where I like to be and it looks like all my dreams.”

They asked the woman/man who lived next door to Mr. Plumbean to go and have a talk with him. Tell him that they liked it before he changed his house, and he has to paint it back so they have a neat street again. The man/woman did as they asked. The next morning when they came out of their houses, they saw a big red and yellow ship next door to Mr. Plumbean’s house!

“What have you done to your house?” they shouted.

He answered, “My house is me and I am it. My house is where I like to be and it looks like all my dreams”.

“He’s got bees in his bonnet, bats in his belfry, and knots in his noodle!”

Then, one by one, late at night they went to see Mr. Plumbean. They would visit with him in his yard and drink lemonade. The next day that person would set about changing their own house to fit their dreams.

(Pause while one by one actors turn their houses around)

Whenever a stranger came to the street of Mr. Plumbean and his neighbors, the stranger would say, “This is not a neat street”. (ASL)

Then all the people would say, “Our street is us and we are it. Our street is where we like to be, and it looks like all our dreams.”

Discussion

Mr. Plumbean decides to be different by painting his house rainbow colors.

  • Are there ways that you show that you are different? If so, who are you different from? How are you different from them, and why do you show you are different from them?
  • Are there ways that you show that you are the same? If so, who are you the same as? How are you the same as them, and why do you show that you are the same as them?

At one point, the neighbors “decided they would pretend not to notice” the rainbow house of Mr. Plumbean.

  • Is ignoring a problem ever a good idea?

Mr. Plumbean says that “My house is me and I am it. My house is where I like to be and it looks like all my dreams.”

  • Do you think that Mr. Plumbean is his house and his house is Mr. Plumbean?
  • Are your clothes you, and are you your clothes?

What other of our UU Principles do you see in the story?

  • 1st Principle: We believe that each and every person is important.
  • 2nd Principle: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly.
  • 3rd Principle: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together.
  • 4th Principle: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life.
  • 5th Principle: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them.
  • 6th Principle: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world.
  • 7th Principle: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things.
  • 8th Principle: We believe in building a diverse, multicultural ‘Beloved Community’ that eliminates all forms of oppression

Adult version of the 7 Principles

8th Principle: We believe in building a diverse, multicultural ‘Beloved Community’ that dismantles systemic racism and other forms of oppression

Extinguish the Chalice

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities

  1. Design a house or houses that “reflect your dreams”. Use templates provided or draw your own.
  2. Design multiple houses and make a neighborhood. Tape them to a wall or large paper or cardboard. Name your streets.
  3. Draw a neighborhood. Watch video.
  4. Design a house from building materials. Take a picture of your creation and send to Dolores for a prize. (dmiller@allsouls.ws)
  5. Make an orange splot from paper, cardboard, or fabric, or cut out the splot provided.
  6. Have a “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt.” E-mail to Dolores when completed for a prize.

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Earth Day and April Bunnies

The April Rabbits

Theme/Reflection: The All Souls theme for April is “Liberation”. With the bursting forth of spring come many surprises. As Unitarian Universalists we respect and celebrate all living things.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction: In “The April Rabbits”, each day of April brings rabbits to young Robert, equal in number to the day’s date. Each day’s batch is wackier in dress and behavior than the previous day’s! 

Videos

The April Rabbits, by Davis Cleveland

 

When Spring Comes, by Kevin Henkes

 

Follow Up

1) Play the “Bunny Listening Game.”

How to Play the Bunny Listening Game

This game is played just like Simon Says, only the bunny does the talking! Select someone to be the “Bunny” and that person wears the bunny headband. Give the “Bunny” a basket/bag with the picture cards inside. The “Bunny” selects one card at a time to read aloud to the others. For example, “Bunny says, touch your toes.” (You might want to eliminate the cards with touching nose and shaking hands. Unless participants shake their own hands)

The participants will perform the action named. If the “Bunny” does not say “Bunny says” and someone does the action, that person skips the next action. The faster the actions are named, the better. Switch “Bunnies.”

2) Cut out small pictures of rabbits. Glue the correct number of bunnies to a numbered page.

3) Bunny craft: Cut out bunny body pieces and assemble by gluing onto a piece of paper.

4) Create a simple “obstacle course” for participants to hop through, inside or outside.

5) Coloring pages

The Interdependent Web and Earth Day

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: Our 7th Unitarian Universalist principle calls us to “respect and care for the interdependent web of all existence, of which we are a part”. With Earth Day coming on April 22nd, we’ll explore ways to live out our 7th principle. Unitarian Universalists believe we should be friends of the Earth, not its conquerors.

History of Earth Day (video for younger children)

History of Earth Day (older): Earth Day founder Gaylord Nelson came up with the idea for a national day to focus on the environment after Nelson, then a U.S. Senator from Wisconsin, witnessed the ravages of a massive oil spill in Santa Barbara, California, in 1969. Inspired by the student anti-war movement, Senator Nelson realized that if he could infuse the energy of anti-war protests with an emerging public consciousness about air and water pollution, it would force environmental protection onto the national political agenda.

Senator Nelson announced the idea for a “national teach-in on the environment” to the national media. He then persuaded Pete McCloskey, a conservation-minded Republican Congressman, to serve as his co-chair and recruited a 25-year-old named Denis Hayes from Harvard as national coordinator. Hayes built a national staff of 85 to promote events across the land. April 22, falling between spring break and final exams, was selected as the date.

On April 22, 1970, 20 million Americans — at the time, 10% of the total population of the United States — took to the streets, parks, and auditoriums to demonstrate for a healthy, sustainable environment in massive coast-to-coast rallies. Thousands of colleges and universities organized protests against the deterioration of the environment. Groups that had been fighting individually against oil spills, polluting factories and power plants, raw sewage, toxic dumps, pesticides, freeways, the loss of wilderness and the extinction of wildlife united on Earth Day around these shared common values. Earth Day 1970 achieved a rare political alignment, enlisting support from Republicans and Democrats, rich and poor, urban dwellers and farmers, business and labor leaders. By the end of 1970, the first Earth Day led to the creation of the United States Environmental Protection Agency and the passage of the Clean Air Act. Two years later Congress passed the Clean Water Act. A year after that, Congress passed the Endangered Species Act.

Today, Earth Day is widely recognized as the largest secular observance in the world, marked by more than a billion people every year as a day of action to change human behavior and provoke policy changes.

Now, the fight for a clean environment continues with increasing urgency, as the ravages of climate change become more and more apparent every day.

The social and cultural environments we saw in 1970 are rising up again today — a fresh and frustrated generation of young people are refusing to settle for platitudes, instead taking to the streets by the millions to demand a new way forward. Digital and social media are bringing these conversations, protests, strikes and mobilizations to a global audience, uniting a concerned citizenry as never before and catalyzing generations to join together to take on the greatest challenge that humankind has faced.

Discussion

1) In what ways did Earth Day bring together people of differing political views?

2) In what ways can we put our 7th Principle into practice? “10 Things I Can Do to Help My World” (though this book is written for younger children, the ideas are for everyone)

3) We’re going to create a journey of how we put Unitarian Universalism into action. When you name something you’ve done, you write, or draw a picture, of it in a footprint outline (or trace your own feet). Take all the footprints and make a path through your house. If you want a really long “journey”, make two footprints for each action, one written and one drawn.

Examples: * Something that helped make things fair? A compromise? (justice, equity, and compassion) *Helped someone else? (inherent worth and dignity, interdependent web)*Took care of nature or another animal? (interdependent web)* Listened to someone else who had a very different opinion? (search for truth and meaning, acceptance of one another)* Played with someone new whom you did not know very well? (acceptance of one another, encouragement to spiritual growth) (back when we could be with people)

  • 1st Principle: We believe that each and every person is important.
  • 2nd Principle: We believe that all people should be treated fairly and kindly.
  • 3rd Principle: We believe that we should accept one another and keep on learning together.
  • 4th Principle: We believe that each person must be free to search for what is true and right in life.
  • 5th Principle: We believe that all persons should have a vote about the things that concern them.
  • 6th Principle: We believe in working for a peaceful, fair, and free world.
  • 7th Principle: We believe in caring for our planet Earth, the home we share with all living things.
  • 8th Principle: We believe in building a diverse, multicultural ‘Beloved Community’ that eliminates all forms of oppression

Adult version of the 7 Principles

8th Principle: We believe in building a diverse, multicultural ‘Beloved Community’ that dismantles systemic racism and other forms of oppression

Extinguish the Chalice

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities

Watch the “Mother Earth Song” video. Here are the words. Make a shaker to play the rhythm. Use anything you have around the house that rattles or put dry beans/pasta/beads/ stones… in a container/jar with a lid.

Watch the “Earth Mother Chant” video.

Make a drum to play the rhythm. Use anything around the house that you can bang on. See “Drumming As A Spiritual Practice” on web page for ideas.

Listen to the reading of “The Curious Garden” by Peter Brown

Watch the video of “The Lorax

Do the Yoga pose, “Salute To the Sun.”

Have a “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt.” E-mail to Dolores when completed for a prize. (Link)

Coloring pages

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Easter Sunday!

Easter Sunday

Focus:

Easter as a springtime celebration, the joy of returning life.

The significance of Easter for young children is its joyousness and hope. Their participation in activities that focus on returning life is an early experience in understanding the theological concept of hope.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Videos:

Easter Parade, by Mary Chalmers (https://www.youtube.com/jcBY7qj8O6I)

Movement Activities:

  1. When Flowers Grow (Background music optional). Children are standing. As you move among them, tap each child on the head, saying, “You are a tiny seed being planted way down in the ground. Down you go.” The child stoops as he/she is planted. After several seeds are planted, say to the next child, “And you will make a good sun, and the sun stands over there.” Continue planting a few more seeds, then say to another child, “And you would make a good rain cloud and rain is over here on this side.” When all are planted, continue, “The little seeds are so quiet and still, and the sun shines and makes them warm all over.” The sun “shines” over all the seeds. “Then the rain comes and chases away the sun, then goes pitter patter down on all the seeds.” Rain “rains” gently on the seeds. “Then the sun comes back, and the seeds begin to grow. Ever so slowly they grow, and grow, and grow until the buds burst open and the flowers seem to hold up their heads to greet the spring!”
  2. Have an Egg Hunt or Scavenger Hunt
  3. Bunny Hop Races

Art Activities:

Making Easter or Treasure Baskets

  • Cut paper lunch bag in half. Decorate bottom half. Attach a handle made from a strip of other half. Shred rest of bag to use as “grass.”
  • Another version

Coloring pages

Exploring Easter and Other Spring Traditions

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: We’re going to explore the Christian story of Easter, the Pagan origins of Easter and resurrection stories from the world’s religions and mythology.

Easter story to read and draw

Reading of the book, “The Easter Story” by Brian Wildsmith https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNFWv906PQo

Demeter and Persephone, a resurrection story from ancient Greece

Amaterasu, the Sun Goddess, a resurrection story from Japanese mythology

Easter Origins and Traditions with Amy, the puppet

Discussion: What themes do these stories have in common? Do you have a favorite? Why?

Closing:

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities:

  1. Crafts
  2. Easter Egg Chalice Coloring Page (https://www.uua.org/worship/words/image/easter-egg-chalice-coloring-page)
  3. Activity Pages
  4. Coloring Pages
  5. Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt with Prize
  6. Egg Dying Patterns and Picture to Design
  7. Dye Eggs (use food coloring, Egg Dying Kit, or markers)
  8. Have a “Bunny Hop” Race
  9. Have an Egg Hunt (or scavenger hunt; see “Signs of Spring Scavenger Hunt”, with prizes)

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Freedom to accept help, liberty bells, and more

All By Myself

Monthly Theme: “Liberation.” As young children develop, they often want to do things for themselves. In this story, a baby elephant won’t let the other animals help her reach the high leaves she wants on the tree. She learns that sometimes we have to accept help to accomplish our goals.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction: Today we’re going to hear a story about a little elephant who wants to do things by herself, without anyone’s help. Are there things you like to do for yourself (eat, get dressed, carry things …)? Talk about things that you like to do for yourself too (like cooking, organizing, driving …).

Story: Read or watch “All By Myself.”

Follow Up Activities:

  1. Make an elephant face by gluing ears and trunk on to the back of half of a paper plate (or use cardboard cut in that shape). Color the plate/cardboard and pieces first. Attach a tongue depressor (pencil, plasticware, layered cardboard from a cereal or other box) for holding up to face. Cut eye holes. Or glue/tape on eyes on the plate. Sample and mask pieces here.
  2. Act out the animals in the story (elephants, lions, birds, snakes).
  3. Go outside and act out the story using a tree if one is available.
  4. Coloring pages of elephants.

Exploring April’s monthly theme, “Liberation”

This is a “Story for All Ages” Sunday. You can begin by watching the story in the recorded Sunday Worship, or read it in the worship service transcript.

If you choose, begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Optional Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction/Discussion: The All Souls theme for March is, “Liberation.”

  1. How would you describe liberation? (getting free from being treated unfairly, to raise to equal rights and status, to free from restraint, freedom from limits)
  2. In the story of “The Bell of Atri”, who was liberated and how?
  3. Is there ever a situation where liberation wouldn’t be a good idea? (freeing a zoo animal, not buckling up in a car…)
  4. If we were in church, today would be a “Choose Your Own Adventure” Day. What does liberation have to do with “Choose Your Own Adventure”? (The children are really good about making connections between the monthly themes and Adventure Day. We ask this question every month.)

If you lit a chalice, extinguish chalice when the time is right for you. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on webpage

Follow-Up Activities:

  1. Making a “Bell of Justice.” You will need: bottom half of a plastic bottle, plastic or paper cup, or empty soup can; foil; yarn/string/ribbon/shoelace; a way to punch a hole in the bottom of bottle/cup/can; tape or glue. Instructions: 1) cut the bottom half of the bottle or get the can or cup. 2) make two foil balls. 3) attach a string to each ball with tape. 4) put a hole in the center of the bottom of the bottle/can/cup. 5) cover sharp edge of bottle/can–for the bottle you could hold it quickly against the bottom of a warm iron, or cover with tape. 6) decorate the bottle/can with stickers, permanent marker, or glue paper/fabric. 7) insert end of strings through the center hole, so the balls are dangling down towards open end of the bottle/can/cup. 8) attach the string to the bottom of the bottle/can with tape or tie a knot. 9) Ring bell by holding bottom. 10) Decide how your family will use it. Options: Try using a larger bottle/can/cup and larger foil balls. Use more foil balls. Sample photo here.
  2. Coloring Pages
  3. Activity Pages
  4. Create 3 “Adventures.” 1) Building/Dramatic Play: Use any building materials and dress up clothes. 2) Games: Bring out board games you haven’t seen for awhile (if there are any left!) Or make up your own. 3) Gym: Turn an area of your house into a Gym or go outside. Make up a golf course using cans, pots or buckets. Make up a ball game. Make an obstacle course. Ride a scooter, bike, or skateboard through it.

Take pictures or videos of skits, games, creations. We’d love to see you on our webpage!

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Curiosity about parents, curiosity about prayer, and more

Tell Me, Grandma. Tell Me, Grandpa.

Monthly Theme: “Curiosity”. As young children develop, they become curious about their parents. Making these deeper connections with those closest to us is a way to experience spirituality. In this story a young child asks her grandparents to tell her what her parents did when they were little. As she hears the tales of their antics, she can only imagine them as doing those things as though they were adults.

Chalice Lighting: Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. (Or make a Flannel Chalice Board & Flames. See instructions under “Other resources” on this webpage) Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger),This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), Loving hearts (hands over heart), And helping hands (hands out palms up)

Introduction: Today we’re going to hear a story about a little girl who wonders what her parents were like when they were little. She loves the funny stories that she hears from her grandparents.

Story: Read or watch “Tell Me, Grandma. Tell Me, Grandpa

Follow Up Discussions & Activities:

  1. Do you think mommy and daddy really looked like they do now, when they were little?
  2. Look at your family’s pictures of parents when they were young.
  3. Talk about some of the antics you did when you were little.
  4. If possible, call grandparents to ask questions about parents.
  5. On the activity sheet, circle all the pictures of things or activities that were mentioned in the story. Cut out the pictures and mount them on a piece of paper or cardboard to make a collage. If you don’t have cardboard, cut up a cereal, pasta or other box.
  6. Color the pictures of the grandparents and children.
Curious About Prayer and Blessing

Begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like (you’ll find other chalice lighting words and video on this webpage).

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Beginning Ritual: (Videos on this webpage)

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life

Introduction: The All Souls theme for March is, “Curiosity.” Many of us are curious about prayer and blessing. Let’s explore some questions and thoughts.

Discussion:

  1. What is prayer? Google describes prayer as an invocation or act that seeks to activate a rapport with an object of worship through deliberate communication. It often refers to an act of request directed towards a deity or a deified ancestor. Another way to describe prayer could be a sharing of deep emotions and desires with our innermost selves and a universal power. Prayer can also be paying attention to others, focusing love and attention on others who are experiencing difficulty or pain, like in our “Calling of Names” ritual.
  2. Is praying the same as wishing really hard? For some people it is. We all have our own ideas about prayer. Others would not pray for special favors but would hope to feel in touch with the power of goodness in the universe, to gain insight into problems they face or decisions that need to be made.
  3. Do Unitarian Universalists pray? UUs use are not required to learn or recite particular prayers. Many UUs take quiet moments of prayer or meditation to sense their oneness with the whole of the universe or feel their connection with the source and spirit of life.
  4. How do people experience prayer? There are many ways and forms to focus on prayer. It could be through meditating, giving, walking, caring, art (like coloring or drawing), rituals such as our Child Dedications, music (see drumming video on this webpage), or journaling. (Today’s follow up activity will be creating a Journaling “Prayer” Book.)
  5. What is a blessing? A blessing is a beneficial thing for which one is grateful. Recognizing and feeling gratitude. Such as a blessing before a meal. We are not blessing the food: the food is a blessing that we’re grateful for. Or in our Child Dedications. We are not blessing the child; we are blessed to be welcoming that child into our Beloved Community. In the blessing we do at the end of Chapel, we are showing gratitude for being together.

Extinguish Chalice when the time is right for you. It could be before reading the conversation, or before doing the follow up activities. Use the “Blessing” (see video), or a reading to extinguish chalice. One can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words” on this webpage.

Follow Up Activities:

  • Meditative Coloring Pages
  • Making a journal (VIDEO). In Rob’s March 22 sermon, he encouraged us to make a journal to write (or draw) about our losses and blessings. Keeping such a journal and looking back on it can be a form of prayer. If you have thoughts or prayers that are special to you or speak to you, write or draw them in there too. See Readings, Reflections, Prayers, and Blessings listed on this webpage, including the meal and bedtime prayers.

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Wolf’s Chicken Stew, the Flaming Chalice, and more

Wolf’s Chicken Stew

A family of chicks is curious about where the treats that show up at their door are coming from. Intending to fatten up the chicks to make chicken stew, the wolf inadvertently forms new and curious friendships.

Chalice Lighting

Gather in a circle and give each participant a battery-operated candle or light a chalice/candle. Or make a Flannel or Felt Chalice Board & Flames (see directions on this webpage). Say the following words:

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism (make “U” shapes with thumb and pointer finger). This is the church of the open minds (fingers to head), loving hearts (hands over heart), and helping hands (hands out palms up).

Introduction

Today we’re going to hear a story about a wolf and a family of chicks that become friends. Do wolves and chickens usually get along? Sometimes friends happen when we least expect it.

Story

Read or watch “Wolf’s Chicken Stew” and emphasize the repetitive phrases. Each time the wolf brings the chickens a goody he says, “Eat well, my pretty chicken. Get nice and fat for my stew.” Encourage the children to say this phrase with you in a wolf voice. Let them practice the phrase several times before you read the story and tell them to say it when you point to them. 

Follow-Up Activities

Take turns hiding a chicken (stuffed animal, plastic animal, or picture) while 1 person, the Wolf, closes their eyes or steps out of room. Then, Wolf asks, “Where is that pretty chicken. I want some chicken stew.” The other players then will offer clues to help the wolf find the chicken. They can use clues like, COLD-WARM-HOT. When the chicken is found switch wolves.

Glue pictures of all the treats the wolf brought on to a strip of paper. Can you remember which he brought first? Next? (There are two pictures of each treat.) Do the/a chicken dance. Put on music and have the children dance like chickens, like chicks, and then like a wolf.

Color the wolf and chickens.

Curious About Unitarian Universalism: Our Flaming Chalice Symbol

Begin by lighting a chalice or candle. Use the following words or others you like, or see Chalice Lighting video linked on this webpage.

Call: “We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit-growing, justice-seeking community.”

Response: “I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.”

Options for Rituals

Choose from the rituals in the videos on this web page.

  • Calling Out Names
  • Spirit of Life
  • Body Prayer
  • Blessing

Introduction and Conversation

The All Souls theme for March is “Curiosity.” When do you think curiosity is a strength? When could it be a weakness or challenge?

Have you ever wondered about the meaning and history of our flaming UU chalice symbol? To UUs, it is seen to represent the warmth of love, light of truth, and freedom to search for what is true and right.

Choose a flaming chalice history story to read or tell.

Follow-Up Activities

Extinguish the chalice when the time is right for your group. It could be before reading the story or before doing the follow up activities. Use the “blessing” or a reading to extinguish the chalice, which can be found with the “Chalice Lighting Words.”

Please contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws) for information.

Suffragists, dreams, and more.

Preschool

K – 1st grades

2nd – 3rd grades

4th – 5th grades

For links to gatherings for middle school and high school groups, contact James Ploeser (jploeser@allsouls.ws).

Resources for talking with children about racism and violence

General Resources

Choose from the chalice lighting texts below.

Preschool Chalice Lighting Words

We light this chalice to celebrate Unitarian Universalism.
This is the Church of the open minds.
This is the Church of the loving heart.
This is the Church of the helping hands.

Children’s Chapel Chalice Lighting Words

Call: We light this chalice for our Unitarian Universalist spirit growing, justice seeking community.
Response: I am a living member of the great family of All Souls.

We Light This Chalice to Affirm, by Charles Howe

We light this chalice to affirm that new light is ever waiting to break through to enlighten our ways,
That new truth is ever waiting to break through to illume our minds,
And that new love is ever waiting to break through to warm our hearts,
May we be open to this light and to the rich possibilities that it brings.

For Every Time We Make a Mistake, by M. Maureen Killoran

Call: For every time we make a mistake and we decide to start again,
Response: We light this chalice.
Call: For every time we are lonely and we let someone be our friend,
Response: We light this chalice.
Call: For every time we are disappointed and we choose to hope,
Response: We light this, our chalice.

We Light This Chalice for the Light of Truth, by Mary Ann Moore

We light this chalice for the light of truth.
We light this chalice for the warmth of love.
We light this chalice for the energy of action.

This Flame Affirms the Light of Truth, by Elizabeth Selle Jones

This flame affirms the light of truth, the warmth of love, and the fire of commitment.
Extinguishing the chalice: We extinguished this flame but not the light of truth comma the warmth of love, or the fire of commitment which adhere symbolizes. These we carry in our hearts until we come together again.

At Times Our Own Light Goes Out, by Albert Schweitzer

At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has caused to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.

We’ll keep adding more, and feel free to suggest your own (send them to Dolores at dmiller@allsouls.ws).

I Praise the Blue Sky, by Anonymous

I praise the blue Sky.
I praise the sun that is in you.
I praise the bright moon.
I praised the shining stars in you.

The Only Prayer, by Johannes Eckhart

If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.

The Earth So Big, by Janet Goode

The earth so big and I’m so small,
I wonder why I’m here at all,
until, at dark, I see the sky
and then I think I know just why.

I’m here to look and think and ask.
To wonder seems to be my task.
That suits me fine; there’s much to see.
I sure am glad on earth to be.

Oh Great Spirit, by Unknown

Oh great spirit,
Earth, sun, sky and sea.
You are inside,
And all around me.

We Lift Our Hearts in Thanks, by Percival Chubb

We lift our hearts in thanks today
For all the gifts of life.

Earth, Who Gives Us This Food, Native American

Earth, who gives us this food,
Sun, who makes it ripe and good:
Dear Earth, dear Sun, by you we live;
To you our loving thanks we give.

God, We Thank You for This Food, by Unknown

God, we thank you for this food,
for rest and home and all things good,
for wind and rain and sun above,
for peace on earth and those we love.

Bedtime Prayer Thoughts, by Barbara Marshman
  • Think about the things you are thankful for today.
  • Think about something you feel sorry that you did or said today, and any way you can make it right.
  • Think about something you hope will happen, and any way you can help it to happen.
  • Think about being in a place of beauty or a favorite place where you feel safe and good.
  • Think about the people you love and their love for you. See each person’s face in your mind. Give them a goodnight
Thank You, God, for All Life Brings, by Robert and Polly Cooper

Thank you, God, for all life brings,
for health and play an all good things,
and help me use my heart and mind
to make me strong and keep me kind.
Amen.

I Am Thankful for the Night, by Rebecca J. Weston

I am thankful for the night
and for the pleasant morning light,
for health and strength and loving care
and all that makes the world so fair.
Amen.

These Are the Days, by William R. Murray

These are the days that have been given to us; let us rejoice and be glad in them.
These are the days of our lives; let us live them well in love and service.
These are the days of mystery and wonder; let us cherish and celebrate them in gratitude together.
These are the days that have been given to us; let us make of them stories worth telling to those who come after us.

We Give Thanks for the Earth, by Gary Kowalski

We give thanks for the earth and its creatures and are grateful from A to Z:
For alligators, apricots, acorns, and apple trees,
For bumblebees, bananas, blueberries, and beagles,
Coconuts, crawdads, corn fields, and coffee,
Daisies, elephants, and flying fish,
For groundhogs, glaciers and grasslands,
Hippos and hazelnuts, icicles and iguanas,
For juniper, jackrabbits, and June bugs,
Kudzu and kangaroos, lightning bugs and licorice,
For mountains and milkweed and mistletoe,
Narwhals and nasturtiums, otters and ocelots,
For pennies and persimmons, and polar bears,
Quahogs and Queen Anne’s Lace,
For raspberries and roses,
Salmon and sassafras, tornadoes and tulipwood,
Urchins and valleys and waterfalls,
For X (the unknown, the mystery of it all!)
In every yak and yam;
We are grateful, good Earth, not least of all,
For zinnias, zucchini, and zebras,
And for the alphabet of wonderful things
that are as simple as ABC.

Your Gifts, by Rebecca Parker

Your gifts–whatever you discover them to be–
     can be used to curse or bless the world.

The mind’s power,
     the strength of the hands,
     the reaches of the heart,
the gift of speaking, listening, imagining, seeing,

waiting

any of these can serve to feed the hungry,
     bind up wounds,
     welcome the stranger,
     praise what is sacred,
     do the work of justice
          or offer love.

Any of these can draw down the prison door,
     hoard bread
     obscure what is holy,
     comply with injustice,
          or withhold love.

You must answer this question:
What will you do with your gifts?

Choose to bless the world.

The choice to bless the world
can take you into solitude
to search for the sources
of power and grace;
native wisdom, healing and liberation.

More, the choice will draw you into community,
     the endeavor shared,
     the heritage passed on,
          the companionship of struggle,
     the importance of keeping faith,
     the life of ritual and praise,
          the comfort of human friendship,
               the company of earth,
                    it’s chorus of life
                         welcoming you.

None of us alone can save the world.
Together – that is another possibility,
     waiting.

Dolores shows us the ropes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=iyxGNrjRtj4&feature=emb_title

So many things to do and people to see!

Adapted from The Church of the Larger Fellowship

You can create your own worship services at home. Sunday morning is the traditional time, but you may find another time that suits your family better. Weekly is the usual interval, but if less often works for you, try that and perhaps move to more frequency. (Readings, reflections, and prayers can be found on this webpage.)

Creating a Setting. You may decide to do one of the following:

  • Gather around a table with a chalice, candles, flowers, or special objects.
  • Form a half circle of chairs around the fireplace, perhaps adding a special picture on the mantelpiece.
  • Spread a bright-colored cloth on the floor, arranging bits of nature or art around your chalice in the center, and sitting around in a circle.
  • Gather outdoors in a beautiful spot.

Create a Pattern. Here is the format one family uses for a Sunday morning service in their living room:

  • Each member of the family lights a candle
  • Opening words: these can be a favorite poem or something appropriate from the newspaper, a magazine, or a book. Or you can repeat the same words each time, such as:

To this quiet place of beauty
we have come from workday things,
pausing for a while and waiting
for the thoughts that quiet brings.
Source unknown

  • Recorded music
  • Thoughts for the week: each person shares high points and low points of the past week, what they are looking forward in the coming week, and anything they’re worrying about
  • Closing words or a song they sing together

They take turns doing the opening words and choosing the music sometimes they go on to do a religious education session.

Another Way to Create a Service Together

  • Provide a box or paper bag into which you can drop ideas or themes for services as they occur to you. P.T. Barnum’s birthday, Harvest Moon, Helping Others, Making Our Home Ecologically Responsible, or Black History Month are some ideas to start with.
  • After your family worship, but while you are still gathered in your worship space, someone reaches into the box or bag and pulls out a slip of paper with a theme.
  • Decide among you who is to be responsible for 1) creating a visual focal point, 2) opening words, 3) a song, 4) a reading, and 5) a closing. Agree to present the service next time you gather.

You might also plan a service around religious questions that members of your family raise. Take some time to gather ideas and materials that focus on the question in different ways. (Use past ASC monthly themes or contact Dolores for suggestions.) Encourage other members of your family to say how they feel about the question or what their responses might be. The point, of course, is not so much to answer the question as to give it the attention and importance that it deserves and to keep these big questions coming.

If your family is interested in a sermon, check out our webpage of past sermons.

Fred Katz talks about drumming as a spiritual practice.

In Rob’s March 22 sermon, he encouraged us to make a journal to write (or draw) about our losses and blessings. Keeping such a journal and looking back on it can be a form of prayer. If you have thoughts or prayers that are special to you or speak to you, write or draw them in there too. See Readings, Reflections, Prayers, and Blessings listed on this webpage, including the meal and bedtime prayers.

Greetings from Anya, our nursery provider (VIDEO).

Greetings from Olivia, our nursery provider (VIDEO).

Begin with a check in. “Rose, Bud, Thorn” seems to be working. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)

Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. Review occasionally to see if they still work.

  • K/1st Covenant: Be respectful, Listen to people when talking, Try not to yuck someone’s yum, Let us know when you want to move, Let us know when you’ve had enough screen time, Be thoughtful, kind, and honest
  • 2nd/3rd Covenant: Use kind words, Respect each other by muting when you are not talking, Give everyone a turn to talk., Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately., Have fun!
  • 4th/5th Covenant: Be respectful, Use kind words, One person speaks at a time, If the group is less than 10 people, you can unmute yourself to speak, Come on time

Lesson: Thanksgiving and the Cornucopia

· In the fall of 1621, the Native American tribe, the Wampanoag, (pronounced waam·puh·now·ag) and the Pilgrims, celebrated a harvest feast that lasted for 3 days. Of the 100 Pilgrims that had arrived the year before, only 50 remained. There were roughly 90 Wampanoag.

· The white people ended up lying to the Native Americans, stole their land, broke treaties and promises, and killed many of their people. The settlers were disrespectful and greedy. That’s why many Native Americans don’t celebrate Thanksgiving.

Cornucopia:

· The Cornucopia, or Horn of Plenty, is a symbol of Thanksgiving because it represents fall harvest and abundance, which is what we are thankful for. Not everyone has that abundance.

· In Greek mythology, this is one story of the Cornucopia. Its origins began with the story of the birth of baby Zeus (the sky and thunder god of the Greeks) who was hidden in a cave for safe keeping. One of his attendants was a goat named Almathea which means “nourishing goddess.” She fed him her milk and kept

him strong and nourished. But one day, this future king of the gods was playing with Almathea and accidentally broke off one of her horns with his super strength. But Zeus also has unusual abilities and the broken-off horn was was touched with divine power that provided never-ending nourishment.

4) Follow Up:

· “Let Us give Thanks” by Max Coots (adapted) As you say each item, ask the children to draw it quickly, nothing fancy, then hold it up. They can cut them out and distribute among their family on Thanksgiving. I can send them a copy of the prayer. “Let us give thanks”:

For generous friends with hearts as big as pumpkins

For feisty friends as tart as sour apples

For continuous, who, like cucumbers, keep reminding us that they’re there

For friends who are as elegant as a row of corn, and others as plain as potatoes, but so good for you

For funny friends who are as silly as Brussel sprouts

And friends who are as complicated as cauliflower

For friends as endless as zucchini, and delightful as dill

For old friends nodding like sunflowers, and new friends coming on as fast as radishes

And for those friends now gone, who like gardens, fed us in their times, so that we would be filled with their spirits. (call out names if you’d like)

For all these, we give thanks. (All repeat)

· Make a cornucopia. You’ll need paper (preferably construction), 8 ½ x 11 will work, but larger might be easier. Instructions on how to cut and fold are here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdOf3CRldNs

Begin with a check in. “Rose, Bud, Thorn” seems to be working. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)

Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. Review occasionally to see if they still work.

  • K/1st Covenant: Be respectful, Listen to people when talking, Try not to yuck someone’s yum, Let us know when you want to move, Let us know when you’ve had enough screen time, Be thoughtful, kind, and honest
  • 2nd/3rd Covenant: Use kind words, Respect each other by muting when you are not talking, Give everyone a turn to talk., Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately., Have fun!
  • 4th/5th Covenant: Be respectful, Use kind words, One person speaks at a time, If the group is less than 10 people, you can unmute yourself to speak, Come on time

Lesson: Exploring Diwali

(Choose what works best for your group)

Today we’re going to explore Diwali, the Hindu Festival of Lights. This year Diwali began on November 14th and lasts for 5 days. Diwali symbolizes the spiritual victory of light over darkness, good over evil, and knowledge over ignorance. Here is a story that is told about Diwali.

Read “Diwali Legend”

4) Follow Up: (You can either talk about Light Festivals first, or Hinduism)

· What are other winter celebrations that use light? (Advent, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Solstice, Christmas…) Why do you think that the Light Festivals take place in the winter time?

· Have you heard of Hinduism? In some ways Hinduism is the oldest living religion. Elements of it stretch back thousands of years. Hindus believe that a person’s soul passes through a cycle of successive lives, and its next life is dependent on how the previous life was lived. Do you know what that’s called? (Reincarnation)

· The Hindu religion there are many gods and goddesses which are part of one Supreme God, Braham. The others represent some idea about God, like kindness, or the power of God. Usually when we hear people talk about the god they believe in, if they believe in such a god, they use “HE’ or “She”. But Hinduism does not see God as a gender.

· As Unitarian Universalists we are free to choose our own idea of what god is or isn’t, and even allow that belief to change. We believe that learning about other religions and ways of looking at the world is how we develop these beliefs.

5) Get a flashlight. Make your room as dark as possible. Think of all the ways we can bring light into the world. Each time someone names one, turn on the flashlight, then turn it off again.

Begin with a check in. “Rose, Bud, Thorn” seems to be working. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)

Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. Review occasionally to see if they still work.

  • K/1st Covenant: Be respectful, Listen to people when talking, Try not to yuck someone’s yum, Let us know when you want to move, Let us know when you’ve had enough screen time, Be thoughtful, kind, and honest
  • 2nd/3rd Covenant: Use kind words, Respect each other by muting when you are not talking, Give everyone a turn to talk., Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately., Have fun!
  • 4th/5th Covenant: Be respectful, Use kind words, One person speaks at a time, If the group is less than 10 people, you can unmute yourself to speak, Come on time

Lesson

Exploring Prophetic Imagination (Choose what works best for your group)

Younger Children: I would focus on “Imagination”. What is imagination? (power to picture things in your mind, a creation of the mind, forming an image of something not known or experienced) What do you use your imagination for? How can we use our imaginations to make the world better for ourselves and others. Let’s imagine people smiling. What can we do to make that happen? (say kind things, send notes and pictures to people to cheer them up, tell jokes to them) Have children get drawing/writing materials. Ask them to write/draw something they think would make people smile. Think of someone you want to give it to. If you’re going to mail it, get the address from parents.

Older Children: Breakdown the words first. What is a prophet? (Someone who is believed to predict the future. Prophets often aren’t afraid to say things other people don’t want to hear) In what ways do people see the future? (study science, look at trends-for instance, if it’s known that people made more money in a certain year, it can be predicted that they will spend more at the holidays. Some people say they have dreams or visions about the future.) Who is Dr. Fauci? Do you think he’s a prophet? Why or why not? If you see that someone is about to fall off a tall ladder and you predict that they’ll get hurt, are you a prophet?

What is imagination? (see above) Can we use our imaginations to predict a better future? What can children do to make the world a better place for themselves and others? We can begin with the people right in our own world.

See above activity.

Begin with a check in. “Rose, Bud, Thorn” seems to be working. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)

Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. Review occasionally to see if they still work.

  • K/1st Covenant: Be respectful, Listen to people when talking, Try not to yuck someone’s yum, Let us know when you want to move, Let us know when you’ve had enough screen time, Be thoughtful, kind, and honest
  • 2nd/3rd Covenant: Use kind words, Respect each other by muting when you are not talking, Give everyone a turn to talk., Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately., Have fun!
  • 4th/5th Covenant: Be respectful, Use kind words, One person speaks at a time, If the group is less than 10 people, you can unmute yourself to speak, Come on time

Day of the Dead Lesson

La Día de los Muertos or The Day of the Dead, is a traditional holiday in Mexico that takes place in the first 2 days of November and is to honor the dead. It is not a scary or sad time, but a time for remembering and rejoicing in the memory of those who are no longer with us. It is much like All Souls day, which is November 1st.This is not a mournful time, but a time to rejoice and even mock death.

  • The Aztec people of Mexico believed that after death, people became hummingbirds and butterflies. Monarch butterflies always appear during the Day of the Dead
  • People set up pathways to guide and welcome the spirits of their loved ones. Both for All Souls Day and the Days of the Dead, people make altars by placing by placing things together that remind them of their loved ones. (a ring, a treat or other food, dog or cat collar, blanket, name of song…) They light candles to guide their loved one.
  • Skulls and skeletons are everywhere in the form of masks, candies, pastries, window displays, decorations
  • People gather in the cemeteries, cleaning, arranging brightly colored flowers and candles, placing fruit and bread on graves, playing guitars and the radio
  • They put out the favorite foods of the dead loved ones
  • More information can be found at: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Day_of_the_Dead

Follow Up Activities:

  • Do you know of people or animals who have died? What do you remember about them?
  • What would you put on your altar? Let’s get some of those items or write/draw them and place together. Light a candle or put a flashlight on your altar.
  • Activity and craft pages.
  • Begin with a check in. You can try using “rose, bud, thorn”. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn).
  • Work on the covenant. What does that mean to them? (an agreement or pact about how we will act and expect others to act when we are together) What would be different about a Covenant for a Zoom meeting and one if we’re in person? Ex: In person we often say, “keep hands to yourself”, “share supplies”…” Take turns when speaking” is something that would apply in both situations. Also, “don’t put others down for their opinions and feelings, including in the chat”. Write down participants’ suggestions. Send to Dolores
  • Explore the Jewish New Year

 The Jewish New Year lasts for 10 days. The first day of the New Year is called Rosh Hashanah. In the Hebrew language, Rosh Hashanah means “beginning of the year”. (show sign in Hebrew) The last day of the Jewish New Year is called Yom Kippur. That means “day for righting wrongs”. (sign)

There is an old story that says on Rosh Hashanah, God opens up a book called the book of life. Everyone’s name is said to be written down in this book. Under each person’s name are listed all the good and not good things that person has done in the past year. God counts up the  good and not good deeds and decides each person’s fate for the next year. On Yom Kippur, the last day of the New Year, God writes down everybody’s fate in the book of life and closes the book.

The old story says that before God closes the book, you have the chance to change your record in the days between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. You can wipe the record clean. You can start by being truly sorry for the wrong things you’ve done. But being sorry is not enough to change the record. You also have to try to make things right again with the person you have wronged. You must do good deeds. That’s why Yom Kippur is called the “day for righting wrongs”.

This story can be seen as a good reminder that you must look back at the past year and judge your own deeds. To Jews, the new year is the most important holiday of the year because it is a time for righting wrongs. It’s a chance to start all over again.

On the last day of the new year, Yom Kippur, people spend the day praying and thinking. They do not eat or drink all day, so that they can concentrate on their thoughts. Another reason that people don’t eat on Yom Kippur is to remind themselves of the hunger and suffering of other people in the world. They say prayers for others and for the whole world. (Is there a ritual we do that is similar to this? Sending positive energy to others and calling of names in Chapel.)

Many Jewish people wear prayer shawls when they pray. Wearing the special shawl helps get into a certain mood. People of other beliefs wear a stole or a prayer shawl as well when doing a Spiritual Practice. Our ministers often wear one. Some are specifically made by someone’s friends or congregation. Putting on a shawl or stole is a good way to begin a time of focusing and thinking. Like ringing the bell at the start of Chapel.

Follow Up:

  • Are there “wrongs you need to right”? Get some paper, a notebook or journal, and take a minute to right them down to remind yourself. You don’t have to share unless you’d like to.
  • Making our own “Prayer Shawls”. Use a piece of fabric or old pillowcase/sheet that you can cut into a strip about 4-5 ft. long and 6 inches wide. Or use an old scarf that you can decorate. (As an alternative you could cut 2 sheets of paper into thirds lengthwise. Tape them end to end. You might need to cut a “scoop” in the part of the paper that goes around your neck.) Decorate with symbols/pictures/words that are meaningful to you or help you feel calm. (chalice, bird or some other animal, yin yang, peace symbol, book, hands…) share with each other what those symbols mean to you.
  • A story for Yom Kippur.

Once there was a child who loved to tell stories about his friends. Sometimes the stories were true, but often the stories were not true. The neighborhood children did not like their gossiping friend. One day they decided to ask the Rabbi’s advice . The Rabbi heard their complaints, and called the child to his house.

“Why do you make up stories about your friends?”, the Rabbi asked.

“It’s only talk,” replied the child. “I can always take it back.”

“Perhaps you are right,” said the Rabbi, and he began to talk of other things. As the child was ready to leave, the Rabbi asked, “I wonder if you would do something for me.”

 “Of course,” said the child. The Rabbi took a pillow from the couch and handed it to the child.

“Take this pillow to the town square. When you get there, cut it open, and shake out the feathers. Then come back.”

The child was puzzled, but agreed to do what the Rabbi said. He carried the pillow to the town square and cut it open. The breeze scattered the feathers across the sky. The child returned to the rabbi’s house and told him what he had done. The rabbi seemed pleased. He handed the boy a basket and said, “Now please go back to the square, and gather the feathers up again. The child gasped.

“But that’s impossible.”

“You are right ,”said the Rabbi. “So it is not possible to take back all the untrue things you said about others. Be careful with the words you spread. Once spoken and sent on their way, that cannot be gathered again.”

  • Begin with a check in. You can try using “rose, bud, thorn”. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)
  • Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. If you haven’t yet gotten around to the Covenant, take some time to work on that.

What does that mean to them? (an agreement or pact about how we will act and expect others to act when we are together) What would be different about a Covenant for a Zoom meeting and one if we’re in person? Ex: In person we often say, “keep hands to yourself”, “share supplies”…” Take turns when speaking” is something that would apply in both situations. Also, “don’t put others down for their opinions and feelings, including in the chat”. Write down participants’ suggestions. Send to Dolores

  • Exploring Unitarian Universalism: Our Roots and Principles”

Unitarian universalism is a really long name. Why? Because it combines the names of two different religions with roots that go back hundreds of years. What do you think those names of those two religions are? Unitarianism and Universalism were both faiths that had many beliefs in common. In 1961 they decided to join together (merge) to become one faith. How many years ago was that? (The younger children won’t know how to figure this out) Do you know who it was who suggested that they merge, and worked to make it happen? It was the youth groups, the teenagers. One of the main things that the Unitarians and Universalists had in common was a commitment to social justice and working for equality. Our eight Unitarian Universalist Principles sum up our beliefs. Today we’re going to talk about 3 of them. The 1st, the 6th and the 8th.

Let’s start with the word, “Principle”. Usually, we hear the word principal as the head of the school. Principal and Principle are two words that sound alike but are spelled differently. Do you know what that’s called? (homonym) UU Principles are guides on how we want to live our lives.

 Let’s start with the first Principle. “Every person is important and valuable.” Is it ever difficult to find what is good about someone? How could you do that?

Our 6th Principle guides us to ”build a fair and peaceful world”. What are ways we could do that?

The 8th Principle was recently added to the other 7. It calls us to use our minds, hands and hearts to work for people to be treated equally no matter their race, religion, gender identity, or who they love. (end all oppressions) Sometimes we live this Principle by going to rallies or protests to speak out against injustice. Have you or your parents ever been to one? Another thing we can do is make signs to put in our yards and windows. What might the signs say? (Equal Justice For All; Be Nice; Only Speak Kindly; Your Life Matters; Black Lives Matter; Equality Now…)

Follow Up:

  • Making “Protest” signs. Get cardboard or paper. You could use a cereal or other type of box. You’ll need markers, crayons or paints

The Jewish Holy Day of Yom Kippur begins at sundown tonight. Last week we learned that Yom Kippur means “day for righting wrongs”. We thought about some wrongs we might need to right. You don’t need to share them, but it’s a good idea to write them down.

                                                A story for Yom Kippur.

Once there was a child who loved to tell stories about his friends. Sometimes the stories were true, but often the stories were not true. The neighborhood children did not like their gossiping friend. One day they decided to ask the Rabbi’s advice. The Rabbi heard their complaints, and called the child to his house.

“Why do you make up stories about your friends?”, the Rabbi asked.

“It’s only talk,” replied the child. “I can always take it back.”

“Perhaps you are right,” said the Rabbi, and he began to talk of other things. As the child was ready to leave, the Rabbi asked, “I wonder if you would do something for me.”

 “Of course,” said the child. The Rabbi took a pillow from the couch and handed it to the child.

“Take this pillow to the town square. When you get there, cut it open, and shake out the feathers. Then come back.”

The child was puzzled, but agreed to do what the Rabbi said. He carried the pillow to the town square and cut it open. The breeze scattered the feathers across the sky. The child returned to the rabbi’s house and told him what he had done. The rabbi seemed pleased. He handed the boy a basket and said, “Now please go back to the square, and gather the feathers up again. The child gasped.

“But that’s impossible.”

“You are right ,”said the Rabbi. “So it is not possible to take back all the untrue things you said about others. Be careful with the words you spread. Once spoken and sent on their way, that cannot be gathered again.”

The  Story For All Ages, “Turtle Tale”, by Frank Asch, will be shown at the end of Chapel.

  • Begin with a check in. You can try using “rose, bud, thorn”. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)
  • Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. If you haven’t yet gotten around to the Covenant, take some time to work on that.

What does that mean to them? (an agreement or pact about how we will act and expect others to act when we are together) What would be different about a Covenant for a Zoom meeting and one if we’re in person? Ex: In person we often say, “keep hands to yourself”, “share supplies”. ” Take turns when speaking” is something that would apply in both situations. Also, “don’t put others down for their opinions and feelings, including in the chat”. Send to Dolores

2nd/3rd Covenant:

Use kind words

Respect each other by muting when you are not talking

Give everyone a turn to talk.

Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately.

Have fun!

  • Exploring Both/And (Chose the discussion that works best for your age group)         

 In today’s story, what does “Both/And” or paradox, have to do with Turtle? Do you think it applies? Can     you think of a time in your life when you agreed with both sides of an opinion? Or 2 different, and possibly opposing, ways of doing something?

  • Review last week

Last week we learned that Unitarian Universalism combines the names of two different religions with roots that go back hundreds of years. Unitarianism and Universalism were both faiths that had many beliefs in common. In 1961 they decided to join together (merge) to become one faith. It was the youth groups, the teenagers, that worked to make it happen. One of the main things that the Unitarians and Universalists had in common was a commitment to working for justice.

UU’s have 8 Principles that are guides on how we want to live our lives. Usually, we hear the word principal as the head of the school. Principal and Principle are two words that sound alike but are spelled differently. When I was a kid the principal used to tell us that a school principal is your “pal”.

Today we’re going to explore our 7th Principle, and a way to put it into action.

  • Our 7th Principle states that “We need to take care of the earth, the home we share with all living things”. Today, one species of animals that is in danger of becoming extinct are turtles.
  1. Don’t buy souvenirs or other items made from critically endangered hawksbill shell. The tortoiseshell trade is the biggest threat to hawksbills. When traveling, ask vendors what souvenirs are made of and when in doubt, don’t purchase items in question. See our How To Identify & Avoid Hawksbill Turtleshellguide to learn how to recognize turtleshell and other similar looking materials.
  2. Reduce your carbon footprint! Climate change affects the health of coral reefs which are vital to the hawksbills survival. A warming planet also skews sex ratios in baby turtles, changes the abundance and distribution of prey, increases erosion of nesting beaches, and more. Learn some simple ways to reduce your carbon footprint here.
  3. Choose responsibly caught seafood. Sea turtles are vulnerable to commercial fishing methods like trawling, longlines, and drift gillnets, becoming unwanted catch (also known as “bycatch”) that is discarded like trash. To help make turtle friendly seafood choices check out the Monterey Bay Aquarium’s Seafood Watch which is also available as a handy app for your phone!
  4. Just say NO to plastics! Sea turtles and other ocean life mistake plastic as food and ingest it. An estimated that more than 100 million marine animals die each year as a result of eating or getting entangled in plastic. Avoid using disposable plastic bags, bottles, and “skip the straw.” Check out some easy ways to reduce your use of plastics here.
  5. Leave No Trace. This means practicing good housekeeping when visiting a beach where turtles nest. Remove your trash (and trash left by others) and any obstacles that may become hazards for nesting sea turtles and hatchlings like beach furniture, holes, and sandcastles. Turtles need clean and clear beaches (and oceans!) to increase their chances of survival.
  6. Turtles dig the dark! Sea turtles need dark beaches for nesting and for navigating their way to the ocean. Light from beachfront development can deter females from coming ashore to nest as well as lead newly born hatchling away from the water and towards danger. Learn more about sea turtle beach etiquette here.
  7. Hang onto those balloons! Helium balloons can travel long distances, get caught in electric lines, and hurt animals like birds and sea turtles, which similarly to plastic bags can be mistaken for jellyfish. Learn more about reducing pollution from balloons from the folks at Balloons Blow
  8. Donate to a worthy cause. Billion Baby Turtles is a great way to help on the ground sea turtle conservation efforts in Latin America. For every $1 donated we can save 10 sea turtle hatchlings and we have saved more than 3 million so far! Learn more and donate to save baby turtles here. Another option is to set up a Facebook Fundraiser
  9. Choose sunscreen carefully. Chemicals in some types of sunscreen can damage coral reefs and pollute turtle habitat. Avoid any sunscreen with “oxybenzone” and look for brands labeled as “Reef Friendly” and avoid sprays that can pollute the sand where turtles nest. Check out this article in Vogue about the best ways to avoid sunburn. =
  • Plan a fundraiser to raise money for “Billion Baby Turtles”. We’re going to make postcards to sell to the people at church. For today, you’ll need cardstock, cardboard, or heavy paper. (if you don’t have it, cut up a cereal box, pasta box, shoe box…) Markers, preferably sharpies, or crayons or colored pencils. Scissors and a ruler. Cut a piece of “cardstock” approx. 4”x6”. On one side draw pictures of turtles, or write sayings like, “Save The Turtles”, or “For The Sake of Turtles: Don’t use plastic bags”, or any other ideas you can brainstorm. Make as many as you want.

I haven’t figured out yet how we’re going to distribute the postcards or collect the money, but I’m working on it.

We might show the Story For All Ages, “Turtle Tale”, at the end of Chapel again.

  • Begin with a check in. “Rose, Bud, Thorn” seems to be working. Share 1 thing good that happened this past week (rose), something you’re looking forward to (bud), and something that’s bothering you (thorn)
  • Post the Covenant in the chat so everyone can see what was agreed upon. (I didn’t get one from 4th/5th)

K/1st Covenant:

Be respectful, Listen to people when talking, Try not to yuck someone’s yum, Let us know when you want to move, Let us know when you’ve had enough screen time, Be thoughtful, kind, and honest

2nd/3rd Covenant:

Use kind words, Respect each other by muting when you are not talking, Give everyone a turn to talk., Remember the chat is a group conversation and use it appropriately., Have fun!

  • Exploring Paradox or Both/And (Chose the discussion and activity that works best for your age group)     Paradox: A paradox is by nature, difficult to explain. A paradox is a statement that at first seems to be contradictory or impossible, but may actually be possible or true.

Examples:

  • Don’t go in the water until you have learned how to swim. (How can you learn to swim if you never go in the water?)
  • There is a wizard who can do anything. Can this wizard make a rock so big that the wizard himself cannot move it? (If the wizard can do anything, he can make the rock, and he should also be able to move it. However, the rock is too big to be moved.)
  • This sentence is a lie. (Since the sentence is a lie, does that mean it’s really true?)

Paradox or Not: Read some of the following statements to the group. Ask them which ones they think are a paradox.

  1. I love tomatoes, but I hate tomato sauce!
  2. You must spend money to make money.
  3. One must be cruel to be kind.
  4. You need a car to get a job. You need a loan to get a car. You need a job to get a loan.
  5. When you have replaced every single part of a car, is it still the same car?
  6. Would a bullet that can shatter anything be able to shatter bulletproof glass?
  7. Can you promise not to make any more promises?
  8. Can you follow a command to ignore all rules?
  • Talking About God: People have all different ideas of what God is. Some of them might seem like a paradox. Here are some things children have said:

For me, God is a 5 year old girl. For my cat, God is a cat.                                                                            God is a good feeling.                                                                                                                                     God is anything you want God to be.                                                                                                             God is a big woman who loves us all.                                                                                                             God is a she, and a he.                                                                                                                                        I do not believe in God.I don’t believe in the devil either.                                                                                                                   God is a cloud that stays in the sky.                                                                                                               God is in everyone.                                                                                                                                        God is anything that is mysterious and has remarkable power.

Do you think any of these are a paradox? What do you think God is?

  • Follow Up Activities:
  • Find 2 things that you like, but are very different. (food, toys, books, clothes…) Share why they might be a paradox.
  • Make a “Paradox Plaque” to hang somewhere. Choose one of your favorite paradoxes and write or draw it on paper or cardboard, horizontally or vertically.
  • Make a plaque that says what you think about God.

                      More Paradoxes:

Only you can take responsibility for your happiness. But you can’t do it alone. It’s the great paradox of being human.  

The paradox of simplicity is that making things simpler is hard work.   

If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.

A fear of weakness only strengthens weakness.

Welcome

Welcome to the vibrant and enriching program that is religious education for children, youth, and families at All Souls! Our mission, in alignment with that of the church at large, is to build a diverse, spirit-growing, justice-seeking community. We do this through meaningful lesson themes, arts, hands-on and physical activities, and open conversations. In addition to classes, there are many family friendly events, as well as opportunities to enrich our connections with the family of All Souls Church. Welcome, one and all, to our Unitarian Universalist religious community.

Read on for an RE adventure, as well as helpful information.

~ Dolores Miller, Director of Children and Youth Religious Education

Vision and Goals

The purpose of the Religious Education Program is to:

  • encourage and support our children’s spiritual and ethical growth;
  • provide an open, safe, and compassionate community;
  • offer young people a place to explore Unitarian Universalism and other faiths; and
  • support a natural development of religious faith based on direct experience.

The 2019-2020 registration form is available below. You must register your child(ren) for all classes, nursery through high school. You’ll find descriptions of the classes below. Ours is a cooperative program, so all parents/guardians must volunteer in some way. There is no waiver on volunteering. 

Classes and Other Offerings

Two professional caregivers provide supervised play for toddlers and babies. Remote hearing devices to listen to the service are available for parents who choose to stay with their children.

This year’s curriculum, “Celebrating Me and My World,” explores Unitarian Universalism. It helps preschoolers grow their sense of trust and caring and develop their self-identity and sense of connectedness with all of life. At the 11:15 am service, the 2-, 3-, and 4-year-old classes combine and follow the “Celebrating Me and My World” curriculum.

“We Are Many, We Are One” offers young children the opportunity to learn about their religious community and tradition, as well as the freedom to discover and express their uniqueness. At 11:15, 4-year-olds are with the 2- and 3-year-olds.

In the Theme-Based Workshop Rotation Model of Religious Education, children explore the monthly theme through a variety of venues. Workshops include UUism and world religions, performing and fine arts, meditation/yoga, social justice, nature, cooking, and games, and sports. Workshops are led by congregants who have a passion or talent in a particular area. Grade-level classes are guided by leading learners (class teachers) who provide spiritual and practical support and consistency in relationships.

Workshop Rotation FAQs

  1. What is Workshop Rotation? Workshop Rotation is a model of eeligious education in which the children experience the monthly theme/story through a variety of learning styles, by “rotating” each week to a different workshop in a different space.
  2. Who leads the workshops? Workshops are led by members of the congregation who have an interest or passion for a particular subject; for example, nature, art, cooking, gardening, creative writing, games, yoga, meditation, science. Leaders usually lead the same workshop each week for one month (hopefully), as children of different ages cycle through.
  3. What ages will be doing Workshop Rotation? Currently Kindergarten through 5th grade will be exploring Workshop Rotation on a weekly basis. High school and middle school students will participate at times and in ways as appropriate.
  4. What is the role of the class teacher? The teachers (or “leading learners,” as I like to call them), act as guides for their class, and provide the consistency necessary for creating the “Beloved Community” with their class. They will also lead the reflections and discussions.
  5. Will the classes have homerooms? In a sense, yes. K/1st will meet in Room 1, 2nd/3rd in Room 2, and 4th/5th in the Spirit Room. There, they will eat a snack, check in, and discuss some of the monthly themes. After about 15-20 minutes, the students will be called to Children’s Chapel, which will take place in the Studio. From there, they will be dismissed to their workshops, WHICH MAY OR MAY NOT BE HELD IN THE SAME ROOM IN WHICH THEY WERE DROPPED OFF. Please make note of posted signage and presentations to find the room from which to pick up your child.
  6. On what will the content of the workshops be based? The “core” of the workshops will be the monthly themes and said theme’s accompanying story. Click through here for more information on theme-based workshop rotation from the UUA.

Students dive deeper into Unitarian Universalism, world religions, and our Judeo-Christian heritage. Using this knowledge, they begin to look critically at the world that they inhabit. There is also an emphasis on deeper engagement on both fronts, with an increase in field trips and site visits as well as a turn inward towards the congregation at large, putting on events for them such as the pancake breakfast, haunted house, and chili lunch.

11:15 Service ONLY. For its high schoolers, All Souls’ offers a unique and empowering religious education opportunity. With support from adult advisors, the youth are challenged to take on responsibility for their own learning experience. They select their own methods and topics for spiritual exploration and are held accountable for cultivating an inclusive community environment rooted in the eight UU Principles. Activities include community service, social action, overnight excursions, student-led classroom discussions, and much more.

The All Souls’ Youth Group meets during the second service throughout the church year. Its activities and performance are monitored by the Youth-Adult Committee (YAC), in consultation with the lay-led Religious Education Committee. The YAC includes appropriate All Souls’ staff (youth ministry coordinator and/or director of religious education) as well as adult advisors, but its business is conducted and led by the youth themselves.

Our bi-annual Coming of Age (CoA) program is designed for youth (9th-12th grade) to explore and solidify their own beliefs, and thus to “come of age” in our UU congregation. This year-long program offers youth a chance to clarify their values, beliefs and spirituality in conversation the traditions of Unitarian Universalism and other world religions, as well as with adult mentors and program leaders. The CoA program culminates twice: first in youth presenting their own belief statements (Credos) to the congregation during Sunday services (typically in late spring); and secondly, on a UU Heritage Trip to historic sites in the Boston area, led by the Senior Minister and Youth Minister. CoA is currently scheduled for the 2019-20 and 2021-22 church years. Contact James Ploeser for more info (jploeser@allsouls.ws).

The UUA/UCC curriculum on sex and relationships will be offered this year to junior high (7th and 8th grade) all year. Sixth grade OWL will be offered in the fall only. In addition, for the first time we will offer OWL for children in 4th and 5th grade early in 2020.

On the 1st Sunday of the month, following the Story for All Ages, children in K-5th will choose from a variety of activities such as gym play, construction, crafts, and reading. Once a month parent volunteers and Middle School students will help facilitate these activities.

Led by dedicated volunteers, middle and high schoolers, and staff each week, Children’s Chapel brings together the K through 5th graders for worship and ritual. It includes a chalice lighting, hymns, meditations, and a story related to the monthly theme. Children’s Chapel is held on the second, third, fourth, and fifth Sundays of the month, unless that Sunday’s sanctuary service is intergenerational.

Integral to a child’s religious education is worshipping with the entire church community. Children ages K and up attend the first 15 minutes of worship in the sanctuary on the first Sunday of the month. Dolores and guests tell a story to the entire congregation that introduces that month’s spiritual theme. There is no Children’s Chapel on that day.

Held in the sanctuary during the regular worship service, this dedication ceremony celebrates the blessing of new life, expresses parents’ hopes for their children, and calls the congregation to lead and nurture a child’s spiritual life. Contact Dolores Miller (dmiller@allsouls.ws) to reserve one of the offered dates for your child’s dedication.

Children and youth take the stage to celebrate that “each child born is one more redeemer,” in our annual partnership with the music program. This year, with expanded roles and opportunities, the pageant is not to be missed!

Held in the cold of February when nights seem incredibly long, come to the warmth of All Souls on a Friday night for games galore. From tabletop games in the Library to cornhole in the Minister’s Corridor, a good time will be had by all!

Asking, “…why is this night different from all other nights?” congregants and friends celebrate Passover, drawing parallels between the Jews’ exodus from slavery in Egypt and current struggles against oppression. Children are especially welcome for conversation, good food, stories, and singing.

This clothing swap of gently used children’s clothing (sized for newborns through teens) is held in the spring. Save your clothing and pass them on to other All Souls families. Leftover clothing is donated to a local charity.

These choirs, for children and youth from 5 to 14, rehearses on Tuesdays from 6:15 to 7:15 pm. Led by Director of Music and Arts Jen Hayman, the children’s choir sings a vast variety of repertoire, including classical, world music, and pop music, and often collaborates with the adult music ensembles at All Souls and other guest musicians. For more information, contact Jen Hayman (jhayman@allsouls.ws).

Religious Education Committee

The Religious Education Committee embodies congregational responsibility for the religious education for children and youth by articulating directions and supporting the professional and volunteer staff in realizing the goals of the program.

Meeting once a month with RE staff, committee members articulate the direction and design of the religious education program by listening to parents and congregants, planning and implementing religious education events, supporting training sessions, and working with other adults in the wider congregation to build a truly intergenerational religious community.

Danielle Henry, Committee Chair

Julie Vallelunga

Allison Denny

Kirk Freeman

Dana Martin

Merrie Dodson

Kevin Hilgers

Shelley Finlayson

CYRE Safety Policies

All Souls Church (ASC) and its congregants want all people at the church to be safe. The Religious Education (RE) Safety Policy (Safety Policy) is about the reasonable boundaries, behaviors, and rules ASC and its congregants follow and respect to keep children and youth under the age of 18 safe. We ask that all adults in the church follow these rules with all children and youth in the church during church-related activities. We understand that individual adults may have grown up with different rules, or follow different rules within their own families. We, the Children and Youth Religious Education (CYRE) Committee, arrive at these rules and behavior expectations after research, consultation with child safety professionals, and prayerful consideration.

  • General: No adult should ever be alone with one child or youth, unless they are the parent or legal guardian of that child or youth. An adult mentor who is talking to a child or youth can find a place that provides some privacy, but may not be alone in a room with a child or youth. Examples of safe mentor conversation locations include a corner of Pierce Hall, a corner of the lobby, or in a room with the door open where the conversation can easily be seen by people walking by.
  • Background Checks: ASC RE staff will perform background checks on all individuals who regularly work with children or youth at church-related activities.
  • Registration: Parents/guardians must complete RE registration for each child or youth participating in RE. Registration may be done online or using forms available in each classroom.
  • Snacks: ASC will offer snacks at RE classes and events that are relatively healthy and unlikely to be allergens. Parents must notify the ASC RE Director of any special food allergies, so that ASC RE staff can make an effort to provide appropriate snacks.
  • Drop-Off: If a parent/guardian is the first to drop off a child or youth and there is only one teacher in the room, the parent/guardian will stay until another teacher or child or youth arrives.
  • During Service: During service, children or youth must either be in class or with their families in the service.
  • Outside of Service: In times outside of service and RE classes, children and youth may move through the church with age-appropriate independence. However, children and youth are expected only to enter spaces meant for people to occupy, e.g. children or youth cannot climb into closets, hide backstage, or go by themselves into the bell tower. Consider both the physical safety of the space and the likelihood that children or youth could get hurt out of view by objects or people. Parents/guardians are responsible for supervising children and youth.
  • Pick-Up: Parents/guardians must pick up children in 5th grade and younger promptly after class. Teachers may not dismiss a child in 5th grade or younger on their own, unless the parent/guardian has expressly permitted this in writing. Please be mindful of this when socializing after the service.
  • Off-Site Activities: Children and youth may not leave the church for RE activities without a signed permission form from a parent or guardian.
  • Emergency Plan: ASC will perform evacuation drills so that children, youth, and teachers are familiar with the routes. Parents/guardians will meet children and youth outside in the event of an evacuation.
  • First Aid: ASC provides limited first aid kits in every classroom. A more comprehensive kit is at the front desk. Teachers will promptly notify parents/guardians of any serious health issues.
  • Photographs: ASC will not publish pictures of children or youth in ASC publications or on social media without express parental/guardian permission, which may be provided at RE registration. Adults, children, and youth at ASC should not post pictures of or identify children or youth on social media without the permission of the child or youth and their parent/guardian.

Serious violations of the Safety Policy should be reported to the RE Director, Dolores Miller, at 202-517-1469.

Thank you for participating in the All Souls Church Religious Education Program.

Expectations for Behavior

In the RE Program, we seek to engage children and youth within an atmosphere of mutual respect and kindness. At the beginning of the church year, all classes create a “Class Covenant,” stating how they will be in community with each other. In order to ensure a safe learning environment for all participants, we expect a method of interacting guided by our covenants. In the event that a child needs help meeting these expectations, the following steps may be taken: verbal correction or sign, removal from the group, conversation with the Religious Educator, consultation with parents, parents asked to take part in class.

In the spirit of community, we ask that our children and youth “be present” in class. This means they do not bring books and toys into the room with them unless it is meant to be used with the lesson. Ideally, all children will be present in mind and spirit, but if your child has a special need to bring a book or toy from home, please speak with Dolores.

Registration Form

Are you looking for a deeper, richer connection to a smaller group of our church’s children? Teaching may be the role for you. As part of a teaching team, you will work with a particular age group (preschool, K-1st, 2nd-3rd, 4th-5th, 6th-8th, or 9th-12th) at the service time you choose (9:30 or 11:15), teaching approximately twice a month for the whole church year. This year-long commitment provides the opportunity to get to know your students, their parents, and your fellow teachers in a meaningful way. Lesson plans, training, and year-long support are provided by the CYRE program to help you make the most of this ministry.

Have you always wanted to teach Sunday school, but can’t commit for an entire church year? Workshop leader may be the role for you. Each month will have activities and lessons focusing on the church’s monthly theme. After children’s chapel time, which all K-5th students attend, each class will go to a different theme-related workshop room for the remainder of the morning. This is where you, the workshop leader, come in. For the entire month, or part thereof (except for first Sundays), you’ll lead a workshop, assisted by the grade-level teachers, in a particular area. A different class will come to your workshop each Sunday, so, by the end of the month, you will have worked with all the different age levels, adjusting your activities as needed to each age group, but leading the same general activity each time. If you have a particular skill or interest you’d like to share, let us know. If not, we’ll help you choose one that will be fun and rewarding.

Are you energized by the idea of bringing many of the spiritual components of the All Souls adult worship experience to our church’s children? Children’s Chapel Team may be the role for you. Each Sunday (except first Sundays, when we have a Story for All Ages in the sanctuary) all K-5th children attend Children’s Chapel in the Studio before proceeding on to that morning’s workshops. Children’s Chapel includes child-friendly worship elements such as chalice lighting, joys and concerns, story, and music. Interested adults are needed both to lead children’s chapel services, as well as to assist through storytelling and/or providing music throughout the church year. Once children’s chapel is finished, volunteers are free to head back upstairs for the remainder of the adult worship service in the sanctuary.

Do you want to help out in CYRE, but don’t feel ready to step into a teaching or workshop leader role? First Sunday “Choose Your Own Adventure” Facilitator may be the role for you. The first Sunday of every month, children in Kindergarten and above begin the morning in the sanctuary with their parents and stay through the Story for All Ages. After the story, all K-5th children proceed to the lower level for a special first Sunday snack, then free playtime, either active games in the gym, or crafts, books, games, construction, and dramatic play in separate classrooms. This is where you, the Adventure Day Facilitator, come in. Adults are needed to supervise both the snack and the free playtime. No lesson plan to learn and just once a month, this is an ideal role for someone who is looking for a lighter volunteer commitment.

If you have time during the week to come in to the church and help the CYRE staff with various preparatory tasks, there’s plenty to do. Your help “behind the scenes” of the CYRE program would be greatly appreciated.

Our program serves children at All Souls, from the time they’re babies through their senior year of high school. The success of our program rests upon volunteers from our church community. Whether you are a parent or not, we need wide participation from the entire church community to meet our spiritual goals for everyone—children, youth, and adult volunteers. Volunteers are supported by our staff: Director of Religious Education Dolores Miller and Youth Coordinator and CYRE Assistant James Ploeser. A volunteer CYRE Committee provides additional support. Come, be a part of this vital, enriching ministry. You’ll be glad you did! Contact Dolores or James.